You can both have more than just the “minimal” of your relationship.
This book is for men, check them out, you might find some great ideas.
For women, there’s a similar book: 100 Ways to Love your Husband.
And if you’re looking for more romantic ideas; check our first romantic collection of romantic stuff, it’s full of ideas!
(See https://cachicoo.com/first-romantic-collection/ for more).